WOMEN SEEKING MEN ADULT DATING

Managing an inter-generational relationship can be much more tricky than navigating any of the many seniors dating sites out there. However, I’ll give you a bit of advice to avoid some confusion. In my experience, pursuing relationships with men outside my age bracket (which I define as being greater than 10 years on either end of the spectrum), I’ve learned that one cannot equate age with maturity. Describing someone in a profile as an older mature man or swinger isn’t being redundant.

I love the fact that some men out there prefer thick sexy women. I have incredible respect for the fact that they haven’t bought into all the media propaganda that says only skinny is beautiful. These guys are original enough to define female beauty for themselves. Guys into BBW dating are man enough to admit they get turned on when a gal’s got more than a few more pounds than those chicks you see bumpin’ and grindin’ in music videos.

That could be the ideal description of Ashley Madison. It seems almost ironic, at least in the common vernacular usage of the term irony that while more and more online dating sites geared towards long-term relationships bar married folks from joining that at least one site makes no bones about the fact that most of its members are only feeling alone in the figurative sense.

Admittedly, many sex dating sites have somewhat shady reputations. Not as far as I’m concerned from a safety standpoint, but rather many folks claim that too many of the profiles are too good to be true. I suppose in some cases the people might have a point, but my attitude is that in all venues you’ll find individuals who pose as something, or someone, they’re not. At any rate, our best scoring adult swingerals site is called Adult Friend Finder.

Ah, Facebook. You allow me to look and judge people who I haven’t seen in nearly a decade, without having to humiliate myself by going to a high school reunion. There are a couple of recurring patterns that I’ve noticed. 1) Most of the people I knew when I was 17 stuck to the same general area and if they moved far away from their hometown, rest assured they don’t have a Facebook entry. 2) There’s a surprising number of relationships (well, two) that actually lasted from high school and are still kicking today. At the time of my first couple of high school relationships, I always kept myself buoyant by telling myself that my girlfriend and I are gonna buck the puppy love trend and make it last (yeah right). Filling out my profile on Facebook or a dating swingerals site, I wonder if my past self thought I’d still be single at the age I am now. I also wonder, can teen relationships last?

I overheard a co-worker discuss the representation of lesbians in romantic movies/TV shows/ etc, and he felt that lesbians didn’t get a fair portrayal. Lesbians were either represented by hetero pop fantasies (the curse of the lipstick lesbians), or portrayed as grunting behemoths. Hetero versions of lesbians aren’t likely to be fair and balanced, but do hetero fantasies consist solely of the mythical lipstick lesbian? lesbian dream girls can be pretty hard to define (or find for that matter). Are lesbian fantasies solely limited to scantily-clad underwear models having pillow fights? Lesbian dating sites should give most people a clue, but unfortunately realistic portrayal s of lesbians often fall on deaf ears.

I was talking about Muslim dating sites and hot Muslim guys with my Lebanese friend and she told me an interesting thing about Islam. Apparently, men (maybe this goes for women, too, but I don’t know) have to be completely clean in order to pray. This means they can’t talk to God unless they’ve washed their hands. The cleansing process is a little more in-depth than simply washing your hands though. The entire body has to be clean. My friend joked that even if a guy has cleaned properly and then accidentally farts, he’s got to go through the process all over again before he can pray.

I’m not going to blow anybody’s mind when I say this, but trust has got to be one of the most basic foundations of a decent relationship. Trust can elevate a good time to a rock solid bond. Let’s face it, no one wants to devote a huge amount of time and energy for someone who can’t be entrusted to do the simplest things. Not that baseless faith is anything to be happy about either. When all trust is gone, we have to ask ourselves, “Is this worthwhile? Can this guy/gal be there for me when the going gets tough?”